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Why now, not later, is the right time to make a caregiver contract for your elderly parent

A caregiver contract, also called a personal care agreement or personal care contract, is a written agreement between family members when one person agrees to care for an aging parent or older adult. A family caregiver contract specifies the caregiver’s responsibilities and other details of the arrangement, which can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. It can also serve as evidence for legitimate payments if a senior who receives Medicaid enters a nursing home and must verify past financial transactions.

Key Takeaways

  1. A family caregiver contract can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts by outlining the responsibilities, compensation, and other details of the caregiving agreement.
  2. An elder law attorney can help draft a customized family caregiver contract; input from an accountant and other professionals may help too.
  3. A caregiver contract may be required by Medicaid if the senior later needs to enter assisted living and prove previous legitimate care expenses.
  4. Details of a caregiver contract should include start date, hours of service, and a termination clause, among others, and should be updated yearly.

Details to include in a caregiver contract

A caregiver agreement should include:

Service start date

This specifies the date and time the family caregiver is expected to begin caregiving responsibilities.

List of caregiving services

This should include expectations of responsibilities such as transportation to doctor appointments, assistance with daily activities, grocery shopping, preparing meals, and performing household chores.

Hours of service

This specifies the agreed number of hours per day and days per week the family caregiver will work.

Compensation terms

Determine a reasonable rate to pay the caregiver for the hours they’ll be working. When paying family members for elder care, Angela Manz, elder law attorney with Manz Law Firm in Virginia Beach, Virginia, suggests knowing the market rate for elder care. The national median cost for in-home care in 2026 is $34 an hour.

A termination clause

This is a clause that allows either party of the agreement to terminate the agreement in writing.

Benefits

This should include health insurance costs, paid sick days, and vacation time for the caregiver. It might also designate the person who will step in when the family caregiver takes time off for a vacation or needs to take a sick day.

How to write a caregiver contract

You can write a caregiver contract by following a template found online but it’s best to have an elder law attorney write it for you after discussing your family’s particular needs. “Adding an attorney to your team allows them to draft a contract that fits your specific needs,” says Manz. “If a contract is done incorrectly, it may be unfixable or have devastating consequences, especially for Medicaid. Errors can be time-consuming and cost thousands,” she explains.

To find an experienced elder law attorney, you can use the “Find a Lawyer” tool from the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys.

How often should a caregiver agreement be updated?

A caregiving contract should be updated at least once a year, according to the American Bar Association (ABA). If someone is hospitalized, or if a serious medical event occurs, it can be helpful to review the caregiver contract to make sure it reflects current needs and responsibilities.

Ideally, all family members should meet with the lawyer together — even if some attend via phone or video conferencing — to discuss the terms of the agreement with the one who’s offered to be the caregiver.

Topics for discussing this agreement should cover weekly hours of work, compensation, paid sick days, vacation, a start date, potential expense reimbursement, and the responsibilities of the job.

Talk to an elder mediator

If family members cannot agree on the terms of a caregiver contract, then consulting with a trained elder mediator may help. Elder mediation is a useful process in which families resolve disagreements and disputes about the care of an older adult in the family. Mediation is a private, confidential process with a trained mediator who helps ensure conversations are productive. “All of the issues people have growing up, like sibling rivalries or heartaches, can come back to life in family discussions, but counseling can help with your frame of mind,” says Manz.

Talk to an accountant

It may also be helpful to consult with an accountant who can explain the tax implications regarding caregiving contracts, says Manz. It’s important for everyone involved in a personal care agreement to understand what the arrangement means for their finances and taxes. An accountant can guide everyone toward making sound financial decisions to ensure continued payment for care of the senior.

Consider Medicaid and tax requirements in a caregiver contract

When creating a contract, it’s important to consider financial factors such as documentation for taxes and/or requirements if the caregiver will be compensated by Medicaid. In addition, if the senior is a Medicaid recipient and later moves into a facility, Medicaid may require documentation of legitimate care expenses before it will issue payment to that facility.

What guidelines does the IRS provide for caregivers?

The U.S. Internal Revenue Service (IRS) provides information about when caregivers are considered household employees in its publication 926, The Household Employer’s Tax Guide. This guide also covers topics such as employment taxes, Social Security tax and Medicare tax, including how to calculate them and when to pay them.

Typically, the employer, which is the family, will need to report the caregiver’s compensation on a Form W-2 or 1099. If the caregiver is a family member, they may not owe employment taxes, according to the IRS family caregiver regulations.

Why is a care contract important for Medicaid requirements?

Every state in the U.S. has Medicaid programs that provide some compensation to family caregivers. However, in addition to federal requirements, each state has its own set of rules and regulations when it comes to Medicaid, says Manz. For example, many states don’t allow a spouse to be a paid caregiver. Medicaid also regulates compensation for caregivers. Undocumented or incorrect payments could jeopardize your loved one’s chance at qualifying for coverage at a senior living community in the future. Medicaid has a look-back period in which the government checks a Medicaid recipient’s financial history to make sure assets have not been shifted or hidden; that the recipient truly qualifies for Medicaid coverage of nursing home costs.

An experienced attorney who specializes in Medicaid can help you determine the requirements that may apply to your loved one’s situation.

Include a backup plan in your caregiver contract

If a family member can no longer provide necessary care, consider these options as a back-up plan:

  • An agency or private caregiver that can provide in-home care services
  • Another family member who can give some time each week to organize in-home care services, or step in when a professional is away
  • Senior living that provides short- or long-term care

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