The 1980s presented a peculiar vision of female empowerment, one that, in hindsight, often prioritized male approval and physical discomfort over genuine self-worth. It was a decade where “looking good” meant bronzing ourselves with baby oil on tin foil, sporting frosted lipstick and mesh shirts, and squeezing into Sassoon jeans so tight that breathing was an Olympic sport. We genuinely believed we were the epitome of hotness.
Spoiler alert: We weren’t.
Updated July 2025
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10 Cringe-Worthy Things We Thought Were Cool In The ’80s:
1. Aqua Net Hair Helmets
We didn’t style our hair, we encased it in lacquer. The bigger, the better. Your bangs doubled as a self-defense weapon and a weather shield. One wrong move near a candle and you risked spontaneous combustion.
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2. Low-Rise Sassoon Jeans
These jeans had one job: make you look good standing still. Sitting, breathing, eating, or being human? Optional. We traded comfort and health for a silhouette. Ask any gynecologist; we paid the price.
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3. Guys in Mesh Shirts and Gold Chains
Picture this: a perm, an open mesh tank, a gold chain nestled in chest hair, and enough cologne to fumigate a small village. That was the peak male aesthetic, and somehow, we fell for it.
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4. Baby Oil + Sun = Amazing Tan
We weren’t sunbathing, we were rotisserie chickens. SPF was for the weak.. Only about one-third of U.S. adults wear sunscreen regularly now. We were actively cooking ourselves for sport.
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5. Phil Collins Slow Dances
We sobbed through middle school slow dances to “Against All Odds”, drenched in emotional sweat and bad perfume, convinced melancholy was romantic. Spoiler: it was just depression with a soundtrack.
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6. Cosmo Intimacy Tips
Cosmopolitan once advised soft-bite massages, pepper-sprinkle sneezes, and donut holes around privates. Interrobang preserved some of the worst tips. We believed them.
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7. Backseat Intimacy in a Pontiac
Uncomfortable. Awkward. Often unsafe. We weren’t ready. We didn’t ask questions. We called it normal because no one told us what good intimacy actually looked like, especially for us.
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8. The Saving Yourself/Giving it Away Binary
You were either saving yourself or giving it away, and either way, it was never really yours. No nuance. No ownership. Just a scoreboard you didn’t ask to be on.
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9. Diet Culture = Attractive
Tab, SlimFast, Dexatrim—we consumed them like holy water. Dexatrim was even later linked to heart issues. At the time, it was just another thing you hid in your purse.
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10. Being Chosen Over Choosing
We grew up thinking being desired was the goal. Not desire itself. Not self-worth. Just the hope that someone, somewhere, would look at us and say yes.
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Trends From The ’80s Were Never Ours to Define; Until Now
Let’s be clear: none of these trends were designed with us in mind. They were about being tolerable, desirable, and disposable. We didn’t own attractive; we borrowed it. We rented it from culture, from men, from outdated magazines. And the rent was way too high.
But midlife changes the terms.
Now, attractive is doing what the hell you want. It’s wearing red lipstick because you feel like it, not because someone’s watching. It’s lifting heavy at the gym, sleeping in good sheets, paying your own bills, and not giving a single what someone else thinks.
Attractive is a choice. And finally, it’s ours to make.
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